Letting go...

To Let go does not mean to stop caring......
it means I can't do it for someone else.

To Let go is not to cut myself off......i
t is the realization I can't control another.

To Let go is not to enable... ...
but to allow learning from natural consequences.

To Let go is to admit powerlessness... ...
which means the outcome is not in my hands.

To Let go is not to try to change or blame another......
it's to make the most of myself.

To Let go is not to care for, but to care about.
To Let go is not to fix, but to be supportive.

To Let go is not to judge... ...
but to allow another to be a human being.

To Let go is not to be in the middle arranging all the outcomes.
.. ...but to allow others to affect their destinies.
To Let go is not to be protective... ...

it's to permit another to face reality.
To Let go is not to deny, but to accept.

To Let go is not to nag, scold, or argue... ...
but instead to search out my own shortcomings and correct them.

To Let go is not to adjust everything to my desires... ...
but to take each day as it comes, and cherish myself in it.

To Let go is not to criticize and regulate anybody... ...
but to try to become what I dream I can be.

To Let go is not to regret the past... ...
but to grow and live for the future.

A little gal's riddle.....

a lil gal sat by the window,
running around in circles.
a life filled with many more laughter,
a love that never rekindles.

She often ask why and what was her fault,
being not the molded creation?
or being ashamed of all that has happened?
The funny thing is that it is not her fault yet,
she wonder why she make a mountain of creations.

Perhaps, all was it to protect,
the very person that made her the way she is,
or rather led her through so much uncertainty,
and yet manipulated her feelings and thoughts.

Let me bring you back to the chapter,
where she was filled with so much love,
she holds on to her impression,
for they say love is all that conquers..

Yet, does it actually matters,
that the very person that meant all the world to her.
seems so lost in space,
so they say forgive and forget,
but what was being inked onto it,
can be forgiven,
but never be forgotten because it has already been displayed.

Now the footing has to be mend,
she goes all out to prove her worth,
she make sure she don't make anymore mistakes.
for she does not want to b made a laughingstock,
for the mistakes that was not hers to carry,
neither was her burden,nor was her making.

She became so torn in between,
either to save herself or make up stories,
or rather save the very person she trust,
for she knows noone will ever bother,
about this pitiful figure,
whom had given her much and yet taken it off as well.

They say being what you are,
truthful to yourself is really what matters.
if u r a good gal,just b proud and b one,
if u aren't,GOD never make u bad,
so this is probably your own making, deal with it.

Yet, sometimes its very unfair that those undeserving ones,
get everything that is not theirs.
And for those that does,not only that they don't get what they deserve,
instead are being thrown all in the wrong path.

So to speak, humans are still made of feelings,
what more a lil gal??
maybe the reason that everything happens,
is all that makes a person learn,
what is left to be, and make to be.

Hatred is gone, love in place,
yet a journey of hurt still takes place.
Somehow its always end in its own way,
to blessed the person of their lost ways,
or bitch it and end up a whole pile of confusion.

Alas,the lil gal learn det,if u do love,
then you must understand and learn to let go.
to blessed them as they carry on their journey,
bless urself more by letting of the burden,
of not ever having to feel sorry,
becuz u have already LOVED..:)

(PS: it has been criticized all along this theory, but how could u change a person whom have so much to offer, when there's already less out dere? being true is what really matters...hence,the story of the lil gal might never have a happily ever ending, but hopefully one that has meaning in which she cherished!! :P)